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Although internet welcome to my presentation on gestures and body language...be twenty three
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...asti you know-how to read gestures and body language if so teach me...presentation I will
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do just that what I did was I studied over twenty five psychology
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and law enforcement training manuals I discovered what they all agree with
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and put it all into this one presentation...start off first with the eyes a person's eyes dial
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each strongly when they are very stimulated and in a problem-solving...at maximum
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violation the person is ready to make a decision which is most likely going to be positive
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and eyebrow raises sign that person isn't threatening when you actually raise your
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eyebrows to somebody even if they're complete...often smile this is a very submissive
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sign releases perceived that way whenever you first meet somebody the first-person
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to look away is considered to be the most submissive if a person is...strong eye contact they
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are either one interested in you if their eyes are violated or challenging use
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their eyes are constructed the most threatening look is achieved by moving
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narrow dies towards a person with little to no body movement the speed of this head movement
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will demonstrate how angry that person is liars maintains strong eye contact with people
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it should actually become uncomfortable at some point if someone gives you a sideways glance look at their eyebrows if
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...they like us not data if a person's link rate increases this is considered a sure
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sign why if a person's eyes are darting around
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there either getting border nervous when first meaning a person shake hands with strong eye contact
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and give them at least three seconds to look at you...interrupted to generate the best report to build stronger
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...you should look them in the eyes somewhere between sixty to seventy percent of
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the this is a really interesting chart lot of people don't know this but
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whenever people are trying to remember something they'll look in certain directions so,
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for example, if a person looks upwards...
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you're right they're trying to remember something they visually saw and if they look sideways
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into the right to try and remember something they heard down into the right is whenever a person
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is talking themselves answer either trying to construct something that they've never seen
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...planning online to you they'll look up and to the left down to the left is where a person looks whenever
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...feeling something or remembering...you might be asking yourself...might be thinking
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yourself right now well I just feel more comfortable with my arms crossed in front of me,
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for example, or some other than what you have to understand is if you feel
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comfortable the specific body position it is because you're feeling a certain way ask yourself,
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for example, when would you feel comfortable with your arms crossed
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one enjoying yourself with a loved one or even better yet I've ever seen anyone cross their
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arms and excitement I want to hand-shaking when shaking someone's hand if their hand is on top
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they're trying to dominate you which means that they literally take your hand and flip it so that
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your palm is facing towards...ceiling also if they grip it like
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...vice that also means they're trying to dominate here and equal handshake
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which both people shaken a vertical manner with equal pressure is the best way to generate good report
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...shake with both hands to touch any other part of the body unless you have an intimate relationship with this
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person at most a brief touch to the elbow which is considered a non intimate part of the body
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during a handshake has been shown to generate very good feelings and generate very good a valuable clued
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weather person being open and honest as whether showing...palms are not sort of elaborate
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honesty equals palm displays if a person says they can't do something and they show you
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their hands they're telling you the truth and what's better yet if you talk with a lot of
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palm displays you'll actually force the people you're talking to be more truthful hands clenched
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...person means they're holding back a negative reaction holding one's risk behind their back is
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an attempted self-control if a person places their head-on their open hands as if on a
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platter they're saying that they admire you this by the way is the best body position if you want
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track people yourself if a person's picking imaginary lent they have a secret opinion more than likely
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they don't want to tell you transform in front hand-in-hand shows that you
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were feeling vulnerable pointing at a person is one of the most annoying gestures you should also never
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...your thumb to your four finger around people this is considered the symbol for money
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rubbing their hands together shows that you...expecting something positive and is been shown that
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speed which a person robs their hands
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will demonstrate how good they expect the results today...hand...represents
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you are conference self-assured this gesture should be used sparingly however if you want to guarantee a
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...confidence this-is look by pressing...your thumb you come off as
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authoritative but not aggressive what I mean by this is instead of pointing with one finger instead take
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a point a finger place it on your thumb and point in that way instead you actually see
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...do this very often on hand behind your back shows
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...you're confident but you feel superior the reason why is
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your exposing all the delicate parts of your body being the groin stomach and
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throat all the same time hands-on hip show that you're preparing to dominate less the
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elbows are held close to the body in this case it would be a submissive position if a person talks their
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farms in their pants rather than rest their hands on their hips they're being very aggressive
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...protruding from pocket shows that person feels their superior you we forearms in front of
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ourselves when we fill either threatened don't like or trust something when you
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fold your arms you lose credibility with people if you're falling your arms
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...grasping you're biceps it shows that you're feeling very insecure if you cleanse your fifth
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...arms people...was being hostile and orange cross with
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thumbs turned up shows that person's warming up to, you know, I'd like to go into invisible walls
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woman often create an invisible wall with a purse by placing that occurs
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between them and the person that they do not trust if a person puts a drink on the opposite side of the hand
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...which they're drinking that also creates an invisible wall because they have continually
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...reaching across their chests to get the...you can gain a
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lot of information by studying people's legs the reason why is information you gain by studying leg and
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feet positions is extremely useful because people have little control over them this is why most meaning
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still only comfortable if two people have their legs hidden by a table or
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desk if you want to appear young and vibrant you should always what quickly...swinging your arms also
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...has been shown that people's feet will point towards that which they want always offer
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people hot cup of coffee the hotter the better this makes it difficult to remain cross
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...themselves and those...does that but another tip to get a person...themselves the ask
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them positive questions to get them to tell you what they're feeling never cross your legs and then have both hands
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...behind your head this is an extremely off-putting especially when there's some additional
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negative like positions...of the
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...as a science person wants to get away from the situation open and cross-legged show
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...prepared to dominate...cross like show that...closed off...certain if
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legs across the points towards that which you prefer you should never ask a person
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to make a decision if their legs and arms are both...same time if a person has a legs crossed
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...holding them in place with their hands they're feeling very stubborn and a person that locks
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...together essentially biting their...if a person locks one foot around their
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cash or side they're showing signs of terminus and if...person sits oddly and share
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...showing that they don't see you as being important if however they flip the chair around and
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...back the chair towards you they're using the back that...a shield and again plan on
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...you or strongly disagree as what you're saying here's some positive like positions women specific
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cross and on cross their legs around people that they like more specifically they cross your legs in
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a parallel manner when they really like someone if actually speak to somebody
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that one on their feet continually keeps moving closer and closer to you that means that
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they're feeling a strong connection you can check to see that smiles sincere by checking for wrinkles at the
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eyes if you smile at a person they will return the favor more than likely and people
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...are often will receive very positive reactions from others
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...a person smiling...often more likely to become the truth as well and a false...
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often appear stronger on one side of the face versus the other tight-lipped smiles on the other hand which
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...cannot shown tell you that the person is trying to keep secret and they smell on which the person has their head
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term down and their eyes aimed upward is used to show that...person is attracted
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to you laughing is very attractive and makes you as well as others feel comfortable laughter has more to do with
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...humor...however as many people now yawning is used by people to
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...poor avoid aggression well that's the end of the presentation hokey liked if you have
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any questions or you have a question you'd like me to research...a comment sexual content?